Dreamed of it, longed for it, fantasized about it.
But, what exactly is the Perfect Man?
Let's take a look.
Every woman, adolescent girl, and heck, maybe even a Grandma or two has their ideal man laid out.
Charming smile. Dazzling features. Eyes brighter than sunsets. Tall. Intelligent. Hard working. Loyal. Trust-worthy. Honest. Dependable.
All of these traits fit into most women's definition of a Perfect Man. Their fantasy is based practically, or solely on looks, wealth, and their ability to be well-liked by society.
Why must these be the only contributing factors? Whatever happened to things like a man's soul, heart, or insight on life? Aren't these aspects valuable too?
Well, if my Perfect Man did in fact exist, trivial things like looks and style are really of little importance to me.
What counts in a Man's personality!
Intelligence is the key. To be brutally honest, I find intelligence extremely sexy, and, if a man lacks it, I am completely turned off.
Because, at the end of the day, what is there if you can't actually have a conversation with the lad?
Having things in common is pretty important, too. If two people have common interests such as music, literature, or movies, it adds many assets to the relationship. Conversation will rarely become dull, which definitely helps to keep things steady.
Being open is another trait I find necessary at times. I don't think I'd be able to stomach a man who had a poor outlook on things that were different.
I would never date someone who was homophobic, racist, or who had a closed mind in general.
Trying new things is what makes life exciting!
But, enough about me. Let's get back to the facts.
Why is the prospect of the Perfect Man so enticing? Is it because he is almost unattainable, which allows your mind to venture off into the unknown?
Do some women enjoy hunting for him? Dating, sleeping, and flirting with many possibilities?
But, at what point does the search become tiresome?
When do you find yourself longing for him to just APPEAR, so the hunt is no longer necessary?
When does it become a struggle?
Soulmates, Perfection, and Forever are all things that are overrated, difficult to achieve, and impossibly hard to find.
Why must one spend their entire life searching for something that may very well be in their backyard?
So, instead of trying to find something new, take a leap!
Say yes to the geeky boy who asks you out, flirt back with the mediocre boy-next-door! And never be afraid to try it out someone new, someone old, or someone you'd never think something could happen with.
I would never date someone who was homophobic, racist, or who had a closed mind in general.
Trying new things is what makes life exciting!
But, enough about me. Let's get back to the facts.
Why is the prospect of the Perfect Man so enticing? Is it because he is almost unattainable, which allows your mind to venture off into the unknown?
Do some women enjoy hunting for him? Dating, sleeping, and flirting with many possibilities?
But, at what point does the search become tiresome?
When do you find yourself longing for him to just APPEAR, so the hunt is no longer necessary?
When does it become a struggle?
Soulmates, Perfection, and Forever are all things that are overrated, difficult to achieve, and impossibly hard to find.
Why must one spend their entire life searching for something that may very well be in their backyard?
So, instead of trying to find something new, take a leap!
Say yes to the geeky boy who asks you out, flirt back with the mediocre boy-next-door! And never be afraid to try it out someone new, someone old, or someone you'd never think something could happen with.
